2014 was one heck of a year.
Life-wise, but also business-wise. I’ve learned so much about ways I want to work, what’s important to me in both of my businesses, and how I want my life and my work to interact with each other.
In this time I’ve managed to spot a few bad habits, and have learned simple ways to actively overcome them.
Here are a few things I learned over the past 12 months which have really helped me in being a self-employed, freelancing, project-juggling, home-working, entrepreneurial tarot reader and writer.
If you run your own online business, I hope they help you, too!
1. Stop checking your emails.
Seriously. Stop it.
It’s like constantly asking for more things to do, when you already have enough going on! Constantly checking emails (and social media) is a form of procrastination. You can deal with your emails once or twice a day and everything will still get done and the world will not stop turning and people will not stop liking you.
Honestly – I love email with all of my tiny beating heart, I really do. But you have to get that thing under control. I turn my email programme completely off when I’m focusing on a piece of work now and it’s just amazing.
(If I’m not working online, I turn my entire internet off. REVOLUTIONARY.)
If you make no other business resolution – make this one.
2. Do one thing well.
It might surprise you to know that I’m not a multi-tasker.
True, I have a whooooole lot of projects running at the same time and I like that. But last year I really learned to focus on one thing at a time. If I’m spending the day working on my tarot course, then I clear my diary for that and save any web work for the next day or week. If I have tarot readings to do, I’ll clear the morning and not even turn on my email programme until I’ve got those done.
This approach really helps me to feel like I’m making solid progress with an important project, rather than spinning a whole bunch of plates. I’m not a robot and it doesn’t always work out that way, but when I do stick to the ‘do one thing well’ principle, it damn well works.
3. Under-promise, then over-deliver.
Less stress for you, more joy for your clients. It’s a cliche but it’s such a good one – I’ve made this my motto now. Underpromising – i.e. promising a realistic, not overblown service to my clients gives me the freedom to go the extra mile as and where I want to – which makes people feel special!
4. Your job is not to please everyone.
I started to hone my niche last year – for example in being more explicitly queer in my tarot work and in choosing to work only on special projects with women in my web design business. I’ve realised that I can’t be all things to all people… and that is *such* a relief.
Focusing on a ‘target audience’ (ew – sorry) helps me to be clearer about what I’m trying to provide. If I try to please everyone, I’ll end up presenting a watered-down version of myself, whereas if I aim my work at my specific community, I can create much better work that is right for them.
And by them, I mean you! The person who is here, reading my blog.
It’s better to lose the people who don’t fit with my own vibes than compromise myself to fit the needs of people I’ll never end up working with. You are the people who matter to me.
5. If it’s not you, stop doing it.
I experimented in 2014 – including writing a brief series for a website that really isn’t me. I’m always glad to try new things out, but I kinda knew before I started that this particular one wasn’t right for me.
I want to learn to trust my gut about this stuff more this year, rather than always saying yes.
Don’t get me wrong – I love the word ‘yes’. But saying ‘no’ more often makes the yesses mean more, and it means I can do them better.
I’ve also tried repeatedly to organise more tarot reading at events and parties. I build a nice page and plan a few marketing emails to local venues… and then I never do anything with it. Probably because I’m focused on other things right now and this feels like a sideline. So – time to stop doing it. Time to take it off my list.
Any of these resonate for you?
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I’m a 30-something writer, artist, tarot reader, and perpetual explorer of the space between thought, feeling, and action.
I believe that spirituality and ritual are for everybody. I’m about the journey, in all of its messy, non-linear, chaotic iterations. I am excited by anticapitalist business and living with my whole entire self present. I use tarot cards to bring forth hidden truth, and ritual to affirm my commitment, over and over, to my ever-shifting path.